Frank, be careful with that line of thinking; it's a dynamic issue. If you adjust the suspension's mechanical grip to be relatively neutral you will still get loose at higher speeds as the race splitter creates more front downforce with nothing to balance it in the rear. I'm no expert in this field, but in general, the best handling cars are those that are neutral to a little loose mechanically (slight over-steer at slow speeds where aero isn't a factor) and generate more down force in the rear than front as the speed increases.
What you don't want is the opposite, a car that pushes at low speed and gets looser the faster you go, which you may be creating. As an example, when the 1st Audi TT came out it had no spoiler, a dramatic retro bodystyle, and like an Audi, it's prone to mechanical understeer. After a few fatal high speed spins on the Autobahn, caused by the car's handling getting very loose at high speed, due to aero rear end lift, Audi recalled it and added a spoiler (as well as suspension tuning and ESP). The engineers predicted the aero issue, but were overruled by the designers who initially refused to add a spoiler because it ruined the retro look.