That's why this gets so complicated. I don't think either of the relays you linked to would work as the one is only rated for 5A and the other looks to be good for 10A. The 10A relay might last a little while, but you're using up every bit of that 10A. Also, you don't just need one relay for up and one relay for down. You have to flip the polarity of the motor....so you would likely need 4 relays per window......one that controls + up....one for - up.....one for + down and one for - down....and they would all have to be wired to work when you need them to work, but not interfere with normal window operation from the window switches or the other set of relays.....for instance, it you're not thinking and you are manually rolling the window up with the window switch while you open your door.....the switch is giving the motor power and ground to go up, and the relays would be applying power and ground for the window to go down which would instantly result in either blown fuses, destroyed timer relays, burnt window switches or all 3. As I said in my first post.....complicated.