My condolences.

As you may recall, my FIL is fighting much the same. Lung, liver, kidney, and pancreatic. He has been on experimental chemo which makes him very ill for a couple of weeks, and then he gets to enjoy about a week of "normalcy".

So far the tumors have stopped enlarging, but the toll the chemo is taking on him is pretty devastating. The only reason I really bring this up is that, after seeing the pain my FIL is in, I am left wondering if maybe a fast demise is not a better thing.

Yes this summer spent with the grandkids was a wonderful thing for both him and the G-kids, but he is paying an awful price.